Marriage
Crisis Counselling
The ups
and downs of marriage
Every marriage has its' ups and downs, good
times and bad times. When the bad times just hang on and
keep getting worse, it is time to seek help. Some couples,
that divorce, could have saved their marriages if they had
tried counselling. Some couples divorce and then get back
together after a few years apart. If they had gone to
counselling, maybe they would have saved those years
apart. There is no way of knowing for
sure.
Marriage crisis
counselling can solve a
lot more problems than one would guess. If two people
love each other, but have come to an impasse in their
relationship, it is worth seeking the help of a trained
professional before giving up on the
marriage.
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Common
marriage crisis issues
There are common
issues that drive couples to counselling. Some of them
are: ex-spouses, child rearing differences, infertility,
divorce, mental or physical illness, infidelity, sexual
difficulties, cultural differences, anger, domestic
violence, mental cruelty, communication problems,
finances, family tragedies, substance abuse
and blended families to name a few. Many couples are
able to deal with and overcome these issues together, but
for those who can not, counselling is needed. An educated
third party can help these couples understand and resolve
conflicts through marriage crisis
counselling.
The
dangers of not solving marital
problems
Left unresolved,
these issues can cause a breakdown of communication and
caring, and a disintegration of the relationship.
Partners can suffer distress, tension, sadness, worry,
fear and anger that, if left to fester, can cause
depression and other physical and mental illnesses. These
unresolved issues can affect work performance, children
and other family members, friends and co workers who feel
forced to choose sides. It is not a pretty picture.
Marriage crisis counselling can help these couples
understand and resolve many conflicts and issues to help
get their relationships back to a good
place.
Qualified
marriage counsellors
When a couple
decides to see a marriage counsellor, they should make
sure they choose a qualified professional who can truly
help. They can usually get a referral from their doctor
or clinic, their insurance provider or company employee
assistance program. Couples can also ask friends, look in
the phone book or on the Internet under marriage
counsellor. However you find a marriage counsellor, they
should be licensed by the state and qualified to be
L.M.F.T. or A.A.M.F.T. They should be trained mental
health professionals specializing in marriage and family
counselling. Couples need to ask for training and
credentials, experience, fees, is their service covered
by insurance company, how long each session will be and
approximately how many sessions will be needed. It is
good to know in advance what the policy is on cancelled
sessions, what office hours are and an emergency phone
number.
Other alternatives
There are also many online
resources that you can use to save a marriage in crisis.
The are often cheaper but still have quality techniques in
saving a marriage from divorce.
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