How To Save My Marriage

The issue

My wife was always mad. She would snap at me all the time. It would be something like my wife asking me to do some house chores and I would refuse to do it straight away like she wanted me to. To me it seemed to be the smallest thing and I figured that it was all her fault. So I didn’t understand why the tiniest issue would make her erupt like a volcano. Likewise I wouldn’t budge either. She would get angry at me and I would shout back at her. From the smallest issue, over time the constant bickering prompted me to ask myself the question that many other couples ask How to save my marriage? Is divorce the answer?  

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A wise head

It took a wise old lady (my mother in law in fact) to help me find the out the answer to the question How to save my marriage? She explained that you have to understand why your wife is angry in the first place. She comes home from a hard day’s work and still needs to do all the house chores like cooking, washing, ironing and cleaning. Then she needs to look after the baby, feed her, care for her, teach her, and bath her. This on top of the fact that the baby is very attached to the mother and always cries for her attention. So can you imagine all the strain this is putting on your wife and your marriage if you don’t help her with things like house work.   

Show your wife that you care

Showing your wife that you love and care for her was the next issue that was brought up. Are you still telling your wife that you love her when you wake up in the morning? Do you care for her when she is sick? By simply telling her that you love her or simply asking the question How are you feeling?..shows her that you love her. So can you understand why your wife always snaps at you if you don’t do the house work or don’t show her that you love and care about her.  

Is divorce the answer?

Is divorce the answer? Do you really think that you will actually find someone that is better? Does your wife make your parents happy? Does she love you? Do you love her?  Is she a good mother to your children? Do you really think that you will find someone else who is absolutely perfect? Really think about the answer to these questions. In any relationship you need to accept that there will be ups and downs. Your wife will always do something that you won’t agree with. But think about it, do you always agree with what your friends or work colleagues do? Accept that you will have your differences. 

The answer to how to save my marriage

The answer to How to save my marriage? Is to show your wife that you love her and care about her. Wash the dishes, iron all the clothes. Make sure you set up frequent date nights just for the two of you. You need this time to farm and grow your love for each other. The next time you are about to fire back at your wife for snapping at you put yourself in her shoes and perspective. Think, why is she mad? What has triggered this? 

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