Get Your
Ex to Return Your Call with The Magic of Making
Up
How to get your ex to return
your call?
If you really want to get back together
with your ex, you need to have a good plan. Of course the
first step is figuring out how to get your ex to return
your call. There isn't much chance of them agreeing to
take you back if you can't even get them to talk to you.
You have to make sure that you do this in the right way
though. There are many things you should not say to them,
but there are also some things you can say that are pretty
much guaranteed to get them to call you back. The trick is
knowing the difference.
The book The
Magic of Making Up outlines a great strategy to use to help you
get back together with your ex, including tips and tricks to
use in order to help you figure out how to get your ex to
return your call. The main trick is that you have to map out
your overall plan first before you call them, that way you will
be prepared and know what to say, avoiding the common pitfalls
that could otherwise make your strategy backfire, whether they
return your call or not.
First of all,
we should make it clear what you should not say. You don't want
to appear to be begging, or to claim that it is an emergency.
This is just likely to drive your ex further away, and it will
not solve your problem of figuring out how to get your ex to
return your phone call. Instead, you need to use psychology in
order to get them to want to return your call. A message that
makes them curious and provokes their self interest will do the
trick. This means you want to say something like "Hi Mike. It's
Jessica. I really appreciate what you have done for me, and I
would like to thank you in person if that is possible. Please
give me a call so that we can arrange something." A message
like this will make him curious as to what it was that he did
that you are thankful for, as well as appealing to his self
interest. He will feel great because you said something nice
about him.
You
must have a plan
Of course if
you want to try the method mentioned above, you need to make
sure you are well prepared before calling him. You need to do
some thinking so that you have a plausible thing to thank him
for at the very least. The best thing to do would be to have a
whole strategy planned that this method for how to get your ex
to return your call is a part of. What are you going to do once
you get a chance to talk to him again? Just talking to him
without a strategy is very likely to backfire, so a plan is
very essential. You don't want to go to all the effort to get
your ex to call and then mess it up by saying the wrong
thing.
A complete
strategy on how to get your ex back is available via The Magic
of Making Up Ebook.